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https://patrickrealstories.files.wordpress.comI look at successful billionaires and always ask this question, what did they do different?
How did they achieve this much success and money? People usually say “It all destiny, they were lucky”. I could take any answer for my questions, but not when destiny is involved.

I am a strong believer that everyone makes their own destiny, from a beggar on the street to the president of a country. Everyone sees the end result, but no one sees the effort that has gone behind that success.

Did these successful people had it easy?

Nope I don’t think so. So what it is that differentiate them from the rest of us?

Also, what is it that we can do to at least start to be like them?

1. You are your own limit – Yes, you can have everything you want in life, if you don’t put limitations in your brain.

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Today would have been your 34th birthday. Surely, I would have buzz you and seek redress for all the past goodies (gist), one that you called “The Annually Buzz”. Obviously, this would have tinkled your hidden feminine voice that says, “Rita only calls on my birthdays”, you would whisper it through the phone reluctantly.

But today looks Lackluster, the kind that is as a result of death. Also the kind that doesn’t allow the living to commune with the dead. This pace doesn’t appear pleasant but what can we do? What can we do to restore this lost? Nothing, absolutely, nothing!

It’s still your day anyway, boss it up wherever you may be, as we keep memories in distance unseen. And as we progress in life, may we find courage to muster your demise. Happy birthday, Sid.


Rest on buddy, rest on!



“New love is the brightest, and long love is the greatest, but revived love is the tenderest thing known on earth” – Thomas Hardy




Who says you are not allowed to feel feminine

Yes, you are but not at the expense of your husband’s libido

Once the cathedral is Legal, that means he owns it

and yes, in its totality


Woman, that’s his kingdom

Understand this basic alignment

Your marriage life rose from dirt to where it is now

Don’t permit any external factors to carry your throne

Or allow it to set fire to the sky and watch it burn down


Your womanhood is a ceremony basilica to your spouse

and you got nothing but crown it up

Give him sequels every time he opens the cathedral

Sex is not a “clean up” job

It’s a desperately realm that needs to feel the arms of a loving spouse


Halt being a robotic wife whose effort is to keep her spouse in an emotional cubical

Women, let’s avoid making our husbands long for physical closeness;

all in the name of shared-wickedness or punishment

For our womanhood is their legal cathedral

A courtesy call to their royal kingdom

Stop this sex starve slump now!


Credit: Jon Bellion, Michele Weiner Davis



That, she’s bold

that, she’s vocal

that, she speaks her mind

that, she’s brave


That, she’s confident

that, she tries to defends her course

that she likes to speak candidly

that, she hates to be sabotaged


That, she doesn’t like to accept defeat

that, she’s firm

that, she believes in herself

that, she expresses herself with ease


That she’s being herself

that, she shuns pretenders

that, she hates mediocrity

Because of all these,

you call her Rude?

Is this really her Crime?


It seems no one can no longer

expresses him/herself without

being tagged as being rude

May God open our eyes

to see the people who are for us.


Life is too short

The world we’re living in is too big

But God’s love is too great to live ordinary.




A Prayer From The Lips Of A Babe For All Fathers!

Bless us Father!
Bless our Fathers more!
They’ve done well since
We squalled as a newborns in their arms.
They’ve nutured,
They’ve provided us
With shelter,
Protection and friendship.
They’ve shown compassion when we go awry
Strength when we frail
Tender understanding when learning is slow
And righteous rage when we get naughty.

They would bend their knees,
And pray!
They prays for
Health and
On their children, First
Then themselves.

Bless us Father! But
Bless All Fathers
Of every Race
And Tribe
And Color
And Profession
Young and Old
Rich or Poor
Struggling Single Fathers
Soulful Step Fathers
Faithful Foster Fathers…
Hardworking fathers
Everyone of them who
And keep true friendship alive
With their prodigy,
Whose intentional parenting
May not always seem rewarding;
But keep at still.
Bless their unseen tears, dear Lord.
Strengthen their weary hearts
Make strong their feeble feets
And grant grace to
Watch their seedlings grow into oak

Happy Fathers’ Day!

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